Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Disputes in deceased estates.

Families quite often have issues that need to be resolved on the death of a family member.

Whilst the executor is responsible for administering the estate, he or she may not be able to resolve those issues.

Mediation is one method which can be used to discuss the matters in dispute and negotiate an agreement.

The advantages of mediation in relation to estate disputes include:

  • The mediator is neutral and impartial;
  • A mediation can be organised to suit the convenience of the parties;
  • The costs of mediation are modest compared to litigation;
  • Mediation offers the parties a private setting within which to discuss and possibly resolve their dispute;
  • The parties are able to discuss the issues and participate in the formation of any agreement;
  • Mediation is a simpler process.
At Brisbane Mediation we have panelists with special expertise in resolving estate disputes.

One of our panelists is Patrick Wedge who was formerly the Deputy Public Trustee of Queensland.

Patrick has a long history and experience in administering estates and assisting to resolve estate issues.

If you wish to discuss an estate issue with Patrick or arrange for him to conduct a mediation, then we ask that you contact our manager Joanne McDonald on joanne@brisbanemediations.com.au or by phone on 07) 38397400.

Monday, December 3, 2012

Information Session - Estate Mediations

We are excited to announce that Alternative Dispute Resolution Practitioner, Patrick Wedge will be our guest Mediator  at the next 'Around the Table with Mike' on the 5 December. Patrick is highly qualified to conduct Estate mediations and he would be of great assistance to people with Estate issues that need addressing.

Patrick was Deputy Public Trustee from 2002 until 2011 and appointed as Acting Public Trustee from February 2008 until March 2009.  His unique mix of legal expertise and leadership skills developed in a public sector environment, gives him excellent insight into diverse issues in dispute resolution and associated problem solving techniques.

'Around the Table with Mike' is held on the first and third Wednesdays of each month between 4pm and 6pm at the Brisbane Mediations Resolution Centre.  They are free information sessions designed for anybody contemplating mediation.

Please call Joanne on 07 3839 7400 if you require further information.  Everyone is welcome so why not bring a friend or family member along.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Advantages of Mediation

Sometimes I am asked to explain the advantages of mediation. There are many such advantages including the following:

• Mediation can be undertaken at anytime.You don’t have to wait for a court to be available to hear your dispute;

• Litigation is expensive whereas mediation can be cost effective. Court proceedings are often drawn out which increases the costs, whereas mediation can be organised and implemented quickly and usually completed in a day. Of course if the mediation is unsuccessful and the matter proceeds to trial then the cost of the mediation is an additional expense for the parties;

• The parties retain control of the outcome at all times,whereas in the court process you are handing control to a third party and asking him or her to make a decision(which ultimately neither party may be happy with).In mediation, the mediator has no authority to make decisions about the issues, however remains in control of the process;

• At mediation, a party is able to present his or her case and hear the other party’s case at an early stage of the matter and the process allows for commercial or lateral solutions which may not otherwise be available;

• One of the great benefits of mediation to participants is privacy. If the matter is resolved the parties can put the matter behind them and confidentiality can be preserved;

• Speed- the whole process can be organised and “done and dusted” quickly. Mediation is quicker then litigation and this helps the parties to avoid delay and uncertainty;

• Simplicity – the process is far simpler and more user friendly than a trial but of course this brings disadvantages with it as well, as the parties don’t always have the protections that a trial provides;

• Mediation, gives parties “their day in court”. Whilst they won’t be in Court in the usual sense, if they are listened to and have the opportunity to be heard then they can feel part of the process and satisfied that they have been heard;

• Litigation does not always provide a fair result whereas in mediation the mediator is not a Judge and can assist the parties in reaching a resolution that they are both able to live with;

• Mediation is not only cheaper and quicker than litigation but may also save in terms of emotional stress;

• Mediation can help to reduce long term tension and hostility between parties and in so doing improve communication between disputing parties which provides a benefit in terms of future co-operation, particularly where an ongoing relationship is necessary, such as where a separating couple has children;

• Involvement of the parties in the decision making produces a sense of ownership and desire to see any settlement implemented;

• Mediation is a reasonably loosely defined concept and unlike the judicial process is not governed by stringent rules as to how and what the mediator and parties can do. This flexibility is both an advantage and a disadvantage.

In a later blog, I will list some of the disadvantages of mediation,one of which is that agreements reached are often not subject to the scrutiny of the Courts and can at times be criticised for favouring the more powerful party.

Sometimes it is necessary for the parties to travel some distance down the litigation pathway before the matter is ready for Mediation.

There is of course a role for litigation,however mediation can offer very real advantages for parties in the right circumstances.

Mike Emerson Co-Principal Brisbane Mediations

Friday, November 9, 2012

Our new website has gone live!!


Our sleeves have been rolled up over the last couple of months whilst developing the new Brisbane Mediations website. 

We are very proud and excited to advise the time has now come and we are running live. 

Please accept our invitation to click on the following link and discover all that Brisbane Mediations encompasses and offers: www.brisbanemediations.com.au 


Let us know what you think and if there are any areas that particularly interest you. We would love to receive your feedback either by email on resolve@brisbanemediations.com.au or by phone 07 3839 7400.


Brisbane Mediations has over 30 specialist mediators including many registered Family Dispute Resolution Practitioners on its panel ready to help your clients discuss issues, look at options and work out how best to reach agreement in disputes relating to relationships, financial, workplace, organisational and child-inclusive mediations. Unlike some other agencies, at Brisbane Mediations we welcome the participation of lawyers in our process. 


Our purpose built rooms allow mediations to be conducted in a relaxed non-threatening environment. 

Let Brisbane Mediations do all the footwork for you- call us on 07 3839 7400 or email resolve@brisbanemediations.com.au 

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Children and New Partners

When separated parents re-partner, their children react in a range of ways - some healthy and others destructive.

Each child's unique grief reaction and adjustment to their parents' separation should be considered before introducing them to even the idea of new partners.

After separation, it is most important to maintain open communication between children and parents. Whilst being as honest as possible with them, however, parents should not expect their children to instantly applaud or even accept a decision to re-partner, especially if the other parent sees the new partner as responsible for the end of the relationship. Similarly, children should not be expected to immediately treat a parent's new partner as a parent.

If expected to cope with such a major change prematurely, there is a risk that children will recoil from or even refuse a relationship with the re-parenting parent and that they will align themselves - sometimes exclusively - with the other parent.

The good news is that given time and sensitive support children can adapt to new parenting situations, including quite complex blended families in more than one household. The key to success is to introduce such changes at the child's pace, with support, and with sensitivity.

As children are treated with respect by new partners, trust can grow and relationships independent of either parent will hopefully develop. This process cannot be forced and relies on the maturity and patience of the re-parenting parent, step-parent and, of course, the other parent.

Denise Britton - Co-Principal, Brisbane Mediations

Thursday, October 18, 2012

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Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Gifts/Loans During Relationship

Issues often arise as to how gifts or loans made to the parties during a relationship are to be treated on separation.

It is quite common for parents to advance funds to the parties to assist them during the relationship. Often the advance is made without documentation and although there may be some expectation that the monies may be repaid, if needed at some stage, it is often unclear as to whether the advance is intended as a loan or as a gift to the parties or one of them.

Even in circumstances where there is some form of written agreement, often there is no provision for interest to be paid and no immediate expectation for repayment on the part of the lender.

While the nature of the advance may not be clear at the time, it is common that on separation the parties have very definite views regarding the advance, with one contending it was a gift to the parties and the other claiming it to be a loan.

The Court has a discretion as to how it will treat the advance and often how to exercise this discretion is very difficult.

The Court might look for written evidence or look at what discussions took place at the time of the advance and whether any part of the monies has been repaid or any interest paid.

Even if there is something in writing, that might not be the end of it, as the court may look at how long ago the advance was made and what, if any, repayments have been made.

If the Court considers it is a loan, it still has to look at whether in all the circumstances it is likely to be enforced and this may involve some consideration of the circumstances of the parties who advanced it.

Ultimately it is a matter of the Court weighing up all of the evidence and assessing where the balance lies.

It is not necessary for the lender to intervene in the proceedings between the parties.

Each case is different and the issue of whether an advance is ultimately regarded as a gift or a loan is one for the Court to determine in the particular circumstances of the case.

The Courts have held that in some cases it is appropriate not to take the liability into account or to discount it. This could include a liability that is vague or uncertain or unlikely to be enforced or which was unreasonably incurred or deliberately incurred in disregard of the other party’s entitlement to property settlement.

Family Law however does not operate in a vacuum and the legitimate interests of third parties are not ignored when the court determines the respective rights to property between the parties.

If an advance is not treated as a loan, then it can be regarded as a contribution by one party but this is not a mathematical exercise and will be just another factor to be taken into account in negotiations between the parties or in the exercise of the Court’s discretion, if a Court determination is required.

The surest way to protect an advance is to enter into a written agreement and to register a mortgage but even this may not provide an answer as ultimately the determination of the nature or character of any advance made is a matter for the Court.

The position in relation to gifts is that the party on whose behalf or to whom the gift is made is usually given credit for a greater contribution because of that gift.

However, whilst the advance may be seen as a contribution by one party, parties and indeed the Court often adopt a broad brush approach to contributions and the advance or gift may be submerged by other factors.

The critical area of contention is in determining the intention of the donor.

Mike Emerson,
Co-principal Brisbane Mediations