Are you allowing conflict to dominate your life?
When the wheels fall off our relationships, of course we all need time to adjust and to grieve what might have been as well as the loss of the best aspects of what was.
However, as our parents always told us when we were kids (and most of us didn't have a clue what they meant until we were of 'more mature years'), "Life's very short".
A popular fridge magnet in keeping with this theme states, "Life's too short for bad wine". How true!
In Queensland we are lucky to live in one of the World's idyllic locations - geographically, socially, culturally and politically - no matter what our beliefs or political bent.
After separation, the best favour you can do yourself and your children (if you are lucky enough to have them) is to find a timely and user friendly way to resolve issues with your ex so that you can move closer to enjoying the lifestyle you all deserve.
Don't waste a second more than you have to on pointless and expensive escalation of conflict. Try mediation - with or without your lawyer present. There is so much to experience in life and no time to lose.
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